A much needed rant

I no longer have a mother, I only have Cindy, a selfish bitch who puts her brainwashing boyfriend before her own daughters' needs.
She refuses to understand why her asshole of a boyfriend doesn't deserve to sit up in the front pew (designated for family members) at my wedding. She yelled at me that I have to respect her wishes and that he WILL be accompanying her for my wedding. To that, I reminded her that as the one getting married, she should be respecting my wishes. We are, after all, paying for the majority of the wedding, therefore should have the say in things. She then threatened to no longer offer to pay for the reception food "if that's how we're gonna be about it." That's a direct quote.
When I requested that I be her priority during the month I'll be home for the wedding, as I will need her help in the final planning process while I'm home, she replied with "You're not going to be sabotaging my relationship just because you're getting married." That's also a direct quote. I brought that back up to her today saying that was very hurtful, and she didn't even say she's sorry or didn't mean it. I told her that if it was a situation of me needing help with flowers vs. Dick wanting her to go kayaking with him, I expect her to help me and tell him no. She didn't agree with me, she simply said that we (which to her means everyone but her (i.e. me)) should be cooperative in things. i.e. I have to put up with her shit again and she's probably going to choose Dickhead over me.


Bitch